RAN(dom)T(hought)S

It doesnt take a psychologist to deduce the fact that people are naturally good third person advisers. But when it comes to your own dilemmas, we tend to negate or neglect what we try to convey to our peers.

Sometimes we feel it is best to have a self-induced deafening technique just to get by with the recurring rants and whines of people that continuously makes a fool out of themselves by habitually comitting the same mistakes over and over again. We suggest remedies that are already in front of them but just too naive to even notice it unless you slap it right through their faces and just too stubborn to even consider doing it. Its annoying actually how they come over to you and they just hear what you have to say but they dont listen to your advices.

But what I failed to realize is the fact that we all came to that point. To the point wherein we knew what was right and we knew what to do but we were too afraid to risk and to know what the outcomes will  be. We were just too emotionally attached with the situation that we only care "what is" and failed to consider "what ought to be" or "what should be". That from our perspective it is never stubbornness to hope. that it is never naivety to give chances. and that it is never wrong to sacrifice.

How I wish we can all live in a state of oblivion wherein we can easily forget what hurts us in just a snap of a finger. In a world where misery can never be a problem. In a world wherein we just have to sleep off all our problems and we dont have to feel bad the following day. That we can move on anytime we want to. that we dont have to depend on the advices of other people because there was an easy way out to all our problems. Thats the panacea we are all wishing for. But, reality bites. and it bites really hard. It doesnt exist. It will never exist.